Keeping An Alpha Man

Geplaatst op 15-01-2025

I’ve been dating one girl continuously for little over a month now. This is my first “LTR” since fully digesting the red pill and completely unplugging myself. I use the term LTR because while neither of us has come out and said “I want to date exclusively” we don’t just fuck. We watch movies, eat, talk, ect. While I have no plans to nail myself down to one girl (I am the SINGLE white male after all) I have to admit the idea of having one main girl who’s more than just a moist hole with a heartbeat does sound intriguing.

As cold as I’d like to think I am I can’t turn off the basics of human nature, and companionship is part of that nature. Unfortunately I’ve seen the light and your humble narrator can no longer just turn a blind eye and live in the ignorant bliss that is modern monogamous dating. This is one of the dark sides to being unplugged. You have to deal with the fact that modern relationships, especially between two young people, and especially for the man, are a bad decision. While I would never go back its something one must deal with because even if things are going perfectly you know there is no such thing as perfect.

Though, I can’t help ponder the idea of what would entail my new definition of a perfect woman. And with that I believe I’ve come up with a list of attributes that would describe the kind of woman who would be required to net any high quality alpha male. Now I hope I don’t overstep my role as the young new guy on the scene with this list, but I’m definitely interested in hearing what other have to say about this list.

I boiled it down to two major criterion that must be met to keep an alpha male.

Keep him happy.

Keep him horny.

While simple in idea, both of these entail a lot of finer details to maintain. Its not a one-off deal that a woman can do once and Robert’s your mothers brothers, she’s netted herself a high quality man. Its this fact that maintaining the relationship requires weekly, if not daily upkeep, that leads me to believe that only a fraction of a percent of women have what it takes to achieve it.

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Keep him happy

There’s a lot of jokes that compare the requirements of female happiness to requirements for male happiness, and the punchline is always that the male requirements is an incredibly short list. This, I think, is a lie. At least it is nowadays. Why? Women are now inherently annoying. Most of what they do makes us unhappy. Whether its being mindless glued to whatever social media outlet is in their field of vision at the time, incessantly sponging up shitty reality TV, only to wring themselves out on us later as if we cared, or simply warpigging us with the “I’m a strong independent woman” rhetoric. These are just a few of the latent qualities in almost every modern woman that pisses quality men off.

So not only is there a short list of extra things a woman should do to keep a man happy, there’s now a massive list of things she should not do to keep an alpha happy.

Whats it take?

Be nice – seems simply, but for most women this is a chore. They’re pride themselves on being sarcastic and “witty” and will demean damn near anything just because they can. Being sweet, gentle, and kind are things that show us that you’re a good caregiver and supporting partner, and that is what we want.
Be feminine – possibly the most important thing on the list, it’s a quality that most females lack entirely. They drink beer and watch football rather than sip wine and read books. They’ve adopted the worst qualities of men for some halfcocked stab at “equality” Ladies, if you own a jersey, throw it away.
Be intelligent – While we don’t care about your Masters Degree, and probably would prefer you don’t have one because of all the personality baggage that’ll come with it, that doesn’t mean being a ditzy dingbat who can’t hold a conversation is what we want. This goes hand in hand with NOT watching shitty daytime TV. If I have to see you everyday I want our conversations to be about world events and social commentary, not Snookie.
Be forgiving – this is a trait that I’m not sure any modern female has. The line “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” isn’t supposed to apply to every little thing in your life. There’s only a few things more unattractive than a woman who things its socially acceptable to rant and rave because someone cut her off in traffic. It goes hand in hand with the false entitlement most modern women have.
Be humble – modern women seem to live in a state of constant one-upmanship. They must be better at everything then everyone, regardless of how unqualified they really are. If they can’t one-up someone, usually other women, they’ll slam them, making snide nasty remarks as to why the other persons elevated quality doesn’t count. See the first bullet point. There are many people who are in fact, better than you. Accept that. Learn from it.
Be entertaining – most young women I’ve met have no idea how to be the life of the party, mostly because the current social situation in the world inherently does it for them. Masses of lame dudes will flock to a pretty girl without her having to do anything. In a relationship this doesn’t happen, you must learn what makes your man laugh, what leaves him in awe, and what makes him impressed. Learn these things and do them regularly. Make him want to spend time with you outside of the bedroom because of how good your company is.
Be respectful – this is another quality that will subconsciously cue a man to keep you around. If you disrespect others he knows you will, and probably are, disrespecting him. Mind your manners, be grateful, humble, and polite. In short, don’t be a cunt.
Be pretty – This is being put under “keep him happy” rather than “horny” because this is about more than just sex appeal. A quality man wants to keep quality women in his company. He wont want to be seen with you if you let yourself go, and because he’s a man with options he want to stay with you. My biggest piece of advice on how to do this, fix yourself, don’t accesorize yourself.
Be useful – grandma knew how to cook, clean, sew, and do a slew of other things. While domestic skills might not be what you need, having some skills that your man does not, and willingly offering them up to him will again, make him want to keep you around.
Having a low mileage vagina – this is the one point most women wont like because it’s not something they can retroactively change. There are personality traits that will let a quality man know that you’ve had more dicks then Trump has dollars. There are personality defects that will go along with that fact. This is one of the reasons alpha males prefer younger women, they’re prettier and they’re less tainted (usually).
Let him flirt – I don’t think its necessary to let an alpha male have sex on the side IF you do your job in the bedroom right, but a socially magnetic and charismatic man will naturally draw other women to him. Men like dominating women, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he has to fuck them. If you keep him sexually fulfilled just knowing that he could bang some chick will be enough for him. Though sexually fulfilling an alpha male who has the option of going and getting something new and interesting is not an easy task…

Keep him horny

One of the qualities of an alpha male is if he wants something he’ll just take it, because he can. In maintaining a relationship this comes into play in his sexual nature. If he wants something new and exciting he’s going to get it, whether you like it or not. You job in keeping an alpha male is to either A) Let him go sow his oats when he feels the need or B) make it so he doesn’t feel the need to sow his oats.

Most women, probably around 90%, dont really know how to fuck. They’ll just lay there and take it till the man is done or gives them an order. While you should never try to become the dominant one in the bedroom (unless he’s into that sort of kink) taking charge of his pleasure will do wonders for his view of you outside of the bedroom. Keeping things new and fresh is a huge part of this. Come onto him in places that aren’t the bedroom. Wear a short skirt and no underwear one day while in the kitchen and when he comes in tell him how horny you are and let him fuck you over the counter. Keep him interested.

Being physically capable of keeping him pleasured is another aspect. Do kegels to keep your vagina in top notch shape. Go to the gym, do squats to keep your legs strong so you can push him down and ride him like a pornstar. Keep your skin clear and young so every night he sees that same face he lusted for however long ago. Keep your body tight so he doesn’t have an easy reason to go looking for something new. Lick his balls. Deep throat him. Toss his salad (if he’s into that). Do all the things that he wants to have done to him. If you’re doing it then he’s going to be less inclined to go elsewhere for it.

Invite a friend. Yes, let him cheat on you, BUT, control it. No matter how good you are in bed the allure of another woman will always eventually take hold of him and he will go get it. Now you can either turn a blind eye, let him have a guys night out and fuck some random club rat, or you can not only be proactive but once again interesting by screening women and handpicking the one who will be sharing his dick with you. There’s another advantage here, in that you can make sure the new poon he gets isn’t as good as you. If he likes big tits get a girl with A cups. If he likes dark skinned girl, go find some lilly white snow bunny.

The sad truth is that most women will look at advice like this and scoff. They’ll say its degrading and demeaning. They’ll say “I don’t have to do that!’ But yes, yes you do, or you’re doomed to a poor relationship with a lame guy. Most women will ignore all this and will just be another girl that the quality alpha man sleeps with on a random night.